He kills women all over the world to always be the one who has to tell the guy he's missing. And what is the usual reaction of a guy? He seems to be spared by this. Women always ask why they must always be the ones who are desperate. Can tables be rotated? Here are some tactics of "hold off" that you can do to make this guy miss you terribly:
Appear too busy to answer his calls or e-mails
Whenever he calls, let the call go to voicemail, then listen to him while he stammers his hi. Take care of something else. Do not answer his text messages too. Do your best to keep your silence. It will not be difficult, especially if you know that eventually he will go crazy and come right to your door.
Do not make yourself available each time
Whenever he asks you to go out, tell him you already have plans. The next time he asks you out, tell him that you have an appointment with your girlfriends. Play your role at a T, make him wonder why you do not pee in your pants to see him.
When he leaves a message on your machine, remember it 3 days after
Three days might be the time you need for what you miss. Make sure he does not hear from you during these three days. This is the most acceptable time for you to ask him why you still do not call and if you are fine.
If he takes you for granted, ignore him for two weeks
If you are still the one who asks him if he wants to go out, or if you are the only one to make an effort for the relationship to work, be a no-show for two whole weeks. This would take him by surprise and hopefully he will be the one who will make the effort to be with you once again.
Do not waste your time waiting.
You can not contort while waiting for your phone to ring. You must keep yourself busy because waiting around him will not do you much good. You could spend your time with your friends or even train.
Resists the temptation to come into contact with him
Try to put a little more hours on your work. Not only will this prevent you from dialing his number, but it will also do wonders for your career. If you want him to miss you, ignore him when you see him
Whenever you see him, say to the office or to the school, ignore him. For a few days, appear as if you do not care whether you see it or not. The time you do not speak should be missed.